Choices

Choices. Everyone has choices. Life is all about the choices you make. Where those choices lead you is all up to you. If the choice you made is not taking you where you want to go, then change the direction and make a new choice. We are human and sometimes our choices will lead us into a situation that we do not want, but nothing says we can not correct our mistakes. Even choices made when we are young and think we know everything can lead us down a path that is totally destructible to us, but we can change it. We can move forward from that mistake and hopefully correct the decision that totally screwed up our lives. Once the realization hits that where you are at is not where you want to be, then take that step to try and correct it. It can be done. Sometimes that first step is a very hard one because you do not know what will happen. Will things get worse? Can I fix this mess I am in? Yes, you can. It is not easy. You might get slapped in the face with a reality that what you did also messed up someone else's life to the point they felt they had nothing left either. You might get a response of total contempt because of how bad it affected their life as well, and they can not get over the depth of the hurt you caused them. On the other hand, you may end up with the best thing that has ever happened to you in your entire life. And because of the mistakes made along the way, you will appreciate the second chance at total happiness. Life can be redirected, course can be changed. It just takes you be strong enough to admit that the mistakes were your fault and own up to them. You will become a stronger person for taking that step and making things right. Believe in yourself and then believe in those that hold your heart. Only then will your life be what you hoped it would be all along. Only then will you find that love that totally consumes you to where the only thing important to you is making that person totally happy. Only then will your heart be free to beat as one with your soul mate, for everyone has that one special person who can become your soul mate for life. That one person who means the world to you, the one you want to share everything with. That one who want to share everything with you.      Whtwolf